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It’s On Us: 

To RECOGNIZE that non-consensual sex is sexual assault.

To IDENTIFY situations in which sexual assault may occur.

To INTERVENE in situations where consent has not or cannot be given.

To CREATE an environment in which sexual assault is unacceptable and survivors are supported.

It’s On Us

Not Alone

hold up

a celebrity filled, gender-neutral, anti-sexual assault PSA?

and this isn’t a BuzzFeed parody?

I think I feel my heart growig three sizes




Mexico CitySex workers gather to commemorate their colleagues who were violently murdered, two days before the Day of the Dead festival.

this is why you don’t fuck around with day of the dead, because it has a deeper meaning than “pretty sugar skulls”. those are offerings to the dead, a symbol of each and every person we choose to honor in the afterlife; not some quirky costume to put on and appropriate. those skulls mean something, the pan de muertos and altars mean something. so go fuck yourself if you think that they’re just for decoration while you shit on my ancestors for you stupid pasty ass bland halloween party.

And lets also remember sex workers who are not protected and their fight as feminism glosses over them and shame them








Bus seats in Finland - for the unsocial people, like me.

Rule number one in Finnish public transport culture: Don’t sit next to anyone. Unless the seats are like this.

In every other cases fill the spots from window seats. Then standing up seats. If the bus gets crowded sit next to someone but sit as far as possible from the other person and turn your head to look to the completely different direction. Don’t say a word. 

And if you’re the one sitting next to window pray all the gods that the other person leaves before you, because otherwise you’d have to speak to him/her. Usually it’s something like “Umm..ileavenow”. Remember, no sorries or smiles. Just say it as low and fast as possible without making any eye contact. 

legit advise for people visiting finland. that “ileavenow” is “mä jään täs” in finnish. it’s okay if you don’t pronounce it perfectly right because the only reason someone would talk to strangers in public transport is to ask them to move, so they will get the hint. 

BUT! usually just things like putting your phone away and rustling your bag and looking like you are about to leave will do the trick. no need for words.

….and this is how you wait for a bus in finland:


Reblogging because of that picture. So true. And familiar.

This is the most bizarre thing I’ve ever seen…what the actual fuck. It almost seems like a joke but I feel like it’s actually serious????


Jesus, and I thought the French were frigid.












Being a shitty person and trolling blind dates isn’t a social experiment, and even if it were Henry the Eight did it first when he dressed up as a hobo before meeting Anne of Cleves.

"We decided to do a social experiment to see how long people would put up with us if we pulled a bait-and-switch on them."

You mean people get angry when you pretty much cat fish them????

Who would have thought that lying about your appearance to people would have a negative reaction. That people attracted to one kind of appearance would not be attracted to a different appearance. Amazing.

Shocking! Men want attractive women and not to be catfished. WOW! This experiment yields wildly unsurprising conclusions that somehow some people needed confirmed.

Would you be mad if this happened to you

Is what you should ask yourself

No, I’d be thrilled to have my time fucking wasted and be catfished!!!

Or did you mean if it was gender flipped? I think it’s just weird in of itself. It’s just inherently awkward to go on a date with an expected image and then to see such a radical difference… if a woman saw a muscular short-haired asian man become a chubby black man with dread-locks or a anorexic looking scrawny white dude, she’d be fucking weirded out that it’s so radically different and it’s not being talked about. That’s just an inherently awkward elephant in the room and it has to be addressed properly or there’s not gonna be a real date.

this reminds me of this story a guy who i used to date told me. he went on a date with a girl he met from tinder and she turned out to be overweight and he felt a bit lead on and i was like oh shit that sucks

This is beyond annoying. It’s not a social experiment, it’s being a dick and hoping people will be “sweet” despite that.

As a fat girl who used to do online dating I didn’t post pictures that led people to believe I was smaller than I am. I even wrote on my profile that I am indeed fat and if you’re not into that you should move along. The result? Only people into women my size spoke to me. And that’s fine. I want that! I don’t want to go meet someone and feel like I lied to them or this is going to be awkward besides the fact this our first meeting. Like…what the fuck does the “experiment” prove or show? Fucking nothing. Of course women’s number one fear would be a serial killer. That’s a legit fear. And of course dude’s are gonna be more worried about appearance. They are more likely to be able to overpower a woman if she turned out to be a killer. But if the thin girl you thought you were talking to turns out to be fat… It’s fucking awkward. He’s not into that. How does he bring that up without sounding like a dick? Come the fuck on. Why the fuck are you pointing out the obvious.

Also I’m pretty sick and tired of people putting on a fat suit so they can “feel what’s like” or see how people react. Why don’t you just listen to people when they tell you about their experiences? Christ, these people are fucking douche bags.


Alaa, an ambulance driver, feeds cats in Masaken Hanano in Aleppo. Alaa buys about $4 of meat everyday to feed about 150 abandoned cats in Masaken Hanano, a neigbourhood in Aleppo that has been deserted because of shelling from forces loyal to Syria’s President Bashar Al-Assad. Alaa said that he has been feeding and taking care of the cats for over 2 months.


(Thank you, Liousha & Tiki!)






We know why.

Don’t forget Charlie Sheen. He’s been arrested for domestic violence at least six times and shot a woman. With a gun. And he’s still got a career.

Sean Penn tied Madonna to a chair and beat her. Fuck him. Fuck all of them.

Michael Fassbender

Matthew Fox

John Lennon

Paul McCartney

Ringo too I’m pretty sure

Phil Spector, although he’s now in jail for killing a lady he beat on Ronnie Spector for years and still got into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame

Axl Rose

Vince Neil

Sean Penn

Charlie Sheen

Jim Morrison tried to set fire to his girlfriend

Stephen Segal

Tommy Lee

Ozzy Osbourne

Mickey Rourke

Bill Murray

Gary Busey

Tom Sizemore

Christian Slater

James Caan

Josh Brolin

Edward Furlong

I could go on.

The point isn’t that the men on the left don’t deserve everything bad they have coming to them.  The point is where the fuck is all the outrage when the men on the right do it.  So many of our pop culture heroes are abusers and nobody seems to care.

Like, even if we’re gonna stick to the NFL, Ben Roethlisberger patiently sat out his six game suspension for rape and continued on with his career with little outrage. 

If we’re really going to care now about ostracizing perpetrators of domestic violence, we got a lotta slack to pick up.

Nick Cage???????

(Source: jessehimself)








I have a few copies of “Playboy” from the 1970s stashed away somewhere. One of them has a letter where a guy writes in saying, “I met this really gorgeous, sweet woman, and we were planning to get married, but she sat me down yesterday and told me that she had a sex change before she met me. Mr. Hefner, should I marry someone who used to be a man?” and the response was, “So she had a sex change, big whoop. Would you be asking this question if she’d made any other change in her life before she met you? You love the woman she is now, and that’s all that should matter. If you want kids you can adopt or something.”

I feel so conflicted right now

That awkward moment when Hugh Hefner is more trans-positive than most feminists of the same era. 


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